How To Get Your Ex Back

Understanding the dynamics between a husband and wife’s relationship can get pretty complex. There are many marriages that don’t last because of the failure to understand these dynamics. Even if one partner or the other believe they have a grasp the marriage can be stronger giving it an opportunity to last. And  if both husband and wife have a good understanding how their marriage works, now they have a great chance for a long lasting marriage that will stand the test of time.

The first step to understanding the dynamics of a husband wife relationship is to realize how different men and women are to begin with. Given the obvious differences in physical nature, men and women are completely different when it comes to emotions the mental capacity.

For example, when men and women face problems they take different approaches. Women are more likely to want to discuss it trying to get different perspectives from friends and family. Women will opt first to talk about the issue at length. (more…)

Signs of a break up sometimes is hard to see coming. Breaking up with someone you care deeply about is very hard to go through for anyone. Sometimes they come out of nowhere and sometimes they happen over a period of time. Either way they often leave you feeling shocked and confused. Why is it common to feel this way?  Because we feel like we just got rejected and we’re not good enough.

We also feel betrayed and like we just wasted a bunch of time with someone leaving us hopeless to ever find a long lasting meaningful relationship again. (more…)

Keeping your relationship in good shape will take work and both parties should be willing to participate. However, it isn’t always necessary to be able to save a marriage or relationship if one partner is more willing than the other. You will just need a plan. A plan that works and is easy to follow. More on that later.

First. Lets define what an intimate relationship is according to Wikipedia: An intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship. It is a relationship in which the participants know or trust one another very well or are confidants of one another, or a relationship in which there is physical or emotional intimacy.

Intimate relationships play a central role in the overall human experience. Humans have a universal need to belong which is satisfied when intimate relationships are formed. Intimate relationships consist of the people that we are attracted to, whom we like and love, romantic and sexual relationships, and those who we marry and provide emotional and personal support. Intimate relationships provide people with a social network of people that provide strong emotional attachments and fulfill our universal needs of belongingness and the need to be cared for.

Like with most relationships yours probably started off very strong filled with passion and total devotion. Then things happen and we often don’t even realize that the love and devotion that was one there has slowly disappeared leaving you feeling hopeless and helpless about the situation. You begin to rationalize that you did nothing to make this happen and refuse to take any of the responsibility, leaving with figuring out if you really want to get your ex back. (more…)